Thursday, June 4, 2009

i am back from my leave already after a week rest at home.

Teaching the maid and teaching son. How i wished i can dont work and be a SAHM, but i cant la, so no choice today i am here again lo working.

Maid is ok la, after i seen her for a few days but then u wont know if a person is really good anot when we are not at home la. All humans are like that de ma. Once they can relaxed, they will not really cared that much de wad right?

Well we shall prayed for the best and see how good she really is lo.

Sister is at home now with the maid and son, Son school holiday now, asked my sister to come and watch the maid while i go work lo.
Need to watched her for a period of time before i can judge her personality.

this maid to be frank, is good, but wad worried me more is that she is pretending when im at home as i think she feel that i am the most fierce at home :)

She is sometimes forgetful, abit slow and might need me to tell her what to do then she will go do lo. Maybe she is still new and i expected too much?
Like i need to tell her to wash my toilet window twice as she clean once and there is still spider web but she nvr clean again till i said so.
Is this normal?
I nvr expected her to climb out of the window nor what la to clean etc. just from inside the house.
I need to tell her to wash the clothes else she will wait like that ;)
I need to remove the clothes from my room laundry basket then she will wash the clothes.
Hmmm. i think all this take times.
He cant tell her or teach her much as he got project now and very busy at work, home late everyday!
;(

The maid like to learn how to cook la, act or not no1 knows.
Well,... we shall see.

She feed son well too but too big mouth like wanna faster like that la. So i always tell her slowly.
She played with Isaac, write with him once only till yesterday as i am there lo.
She will cleaned the toilet everyday la.
What is no good is that she used too much water and also, she i dunno la.

Son is at home now all the way for the whole month of Jun as school hoilday and he never go Pu ti as the maid is at hme with him mah, maybe he will go next week till end lo. Better then he stayed home la.

I taught him to write and read and i tell u i nearly puked BLOOD!
Either he is not listening or he just dont care as he is not scared of me and my sister.
i called his tution teacher and she told me to relax as some kids dont really learn till they are really in K2 moreever he is only 5 in Dec, thus he is not ready now, but i am worried as i am too relaxed on him before and i really nvr teached u see.
I let him played as and when he want and also not strict and bend on teaching. thus now he is like that dont like to read and write.

I belived son can do all this and he just dont pay attention to what i said or wad, but when it come to his teacher he can lo.
I hope to stressed him as he will be in new school in Jul and i am really scared he cant catch up and feel more stress and cry when he needed to go school just like his tution class.
I want him to enjoyed his childhood at the same times learn also.

How can i justify this and make this fair?

BTW, i went for my scanning yesterday and the result?
BOY!!!!
;) & ;(

As i actually wanted a gal la, well no choice GOD gave me this so i have to accepted it lo.
As long as my BB is healthy i am glad already.
;)

i am already 5 months into my pregnacy and im due in Oct lo.
Doc say cant weight the BB yet as now is still growing and is weight in grams rather then KG so wait for the next scan and doctor visit lo.

i am surpised that this pregnancy i gained 0 KG till date. Unlike son, i gained almost like 10 over KG at this point already and in total i gained 20KG.
I wonder why, actuaklly if my BB is big and i dont gained any KG is good haha, so i can slim down faster also!
;)

They are going to cycle later i think or gg movie with Isaac la.
Hope they have fun, i wanted to being son out too also but cant as he got work and weekend also burned suay!
Always got project and no project then sian too!
Timing is always not right!
So sickening la.
Hopefully this week he can go out but he already mentioned that he might have to work la.
&^$^$%^$
See how la.

I am so tight on cash this month le, everything needed to be pay and im gg crazy soon. Hope things will turn better for Jul onwards!

I am praying!

;)
Going clear the dump pile of shit on my desk tat have been acculmlate for the past week im on leave.



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