Saturday, January 30, 2010

Sweet

Private time and dinner with Isaac today after his class, we went sushi as this was what he wants! Nice but he's nt ard






His top part is gone, then he claims he's full lol.


Isaac fav














What we had and more but too full to take pictures











Brought this for Isaac today






My no.2 sweetheart haha









Hearts my bth sweetheart so much!!!
Love u bth always!
;)



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Friday, January 29, 2010

Shocked

Isaac was dignoise with hving piles at the age of 6!!!! That very young! How come he have it, u muz be wondering!!!!

If a kid keep hving hard stool n constipated every time, the chances of him/ her piles been pushed out is 99%!

This is what happen to him thus he hve it!

It is my fault that I tk so long to realized bcas I hve nt bathe him Fr quite smetimes as maid is e one,she nv tell me as her answer is that I THINK IT NORMAL! WTF!!!! I'm so pissed off yet I can't say much bcas I'm the one who shd look out n bathe my kids myself but sometimes wen I'm bk frm Wk, my time is fixed!!!
Pump milk
Dinner
Bathe
Pack clothes Fr Wk
Clean n sterlise my Btle n pump
It's almost 10 then I will hve to nag Isaac to bed as he got Sch tmr!!!

Sigh!!
Hving kyden eats out sk much of my time tt I wanted to stop breastfeeding then I will hve mre time with Isaac bur then my goal Fr breastfeeding is 16 months!!!!!!
I'm in dilemma that I duno shd I stop breastfeeding or I shd mixed half formula half BM!!!!
then I won't need to pump so much but I hve tried my best to pump my milk 3-4 times per day alr!!!!
Alot lesser then b4 alr!

My 2010 goal/ wishes
1. Can I hve good health
2. Can I have more then 24 hours
3. Can mum stop quarrelling with me
4. Can my son be more guai
5. I want alot of thing best for my family
6. I need tk go Thailand tk rewind for this yr damn shag alr!!!

I hve so much thing to nag n want but then sometimes when u hve 2 kids it's Kinda hard to fulfil it and also u hve to giveup certain thing and lesiure!!!
Plus he's stationed oversea project now thus travel n nt in sg mre often then b4 jus lik now he's in shanghai alr!! Monday night then will be bk thn 5th feb he's gg Thailand agn!!!
Busy is gd but then salary increase also gd!!!!
Better so our cash wnt always so tight too ma!!!!
Nt said nt enuff but then got abit spare is better thus can do/use it on others things!

Well enuff of nagging!!
I need to Wk hard n be mre careful on my Wk as I feel that my boss is kinda hinting me smething lik tt!!!
So afraid of been sacked lol
Hope it wnt happen n I think too much la!!!
Btw my Wk is reali easy n smetimes reali v slag!!!!

Well I need go pickup Isaac ltr alr he hve Chinese class today!!

Js nw I went north point awhile only and i realized they gt more malls n shopping things then Amk hub le!! Did not get tk shop as I was with ex hus as he brought Isaac to buy toys thn fetch us bk!

Gd bye
When he's at home I feel he's annoying nw he at shanghai I feel bored/ sad/ low moral
I think I really love him souch la!!!!
;)
If nt I wnt miss someone de
Lol
I wonder isit fate that he's my husband???
I think the answer is YES!
Haha
Need nt b v handsome, rich etc
Else I wnt love a person so much lo!!!!

Haha
我爱洪家福啦
你赚到!!!
Haha




Btw I wanna go here when he's bk






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Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Precious

 
 
 
 


♥ 说好的幸福呢 ♥
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Kyden & Isaac

 


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ROM

 
 
 
 


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Starting Semi Solids

Is Your Baby Ready for Solid Foods? Learn About Baby's Signs of Readiness for Solid Foods
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How do you know if your baby is ready for solid foods? Your baby may be 3 months old or 4 months old when you start to feel she may need "something more" than formula or breast milk. Maybe she is beginning to awaken more often at night or eat more often than "usual" and you wonder if introducing solid foods may be what she needs.


A Growth Spurt May be Confused with a Readiness for Solid Foods

Please keep in mind that a growth spurt will occur between 3-4 months of age. Your baby may begin to wake more frequently at night for a feeding and/or may begin to eat non-stop (cluster feed) as she once did as a newborn. This growth spurt often accounts for the increased hunger in your baby and it should not be taken as a sign that your baby needs solid foods added to her diet.

Try offering your baby more frequent nursing sessions and/or bottle feedings instead of solids; you will find that within a week or two, your baby is oftentimes over the growth spurt and back to feeding "as usual".

Here are a few "signs" that may indicate your baby is ready for Solid Foods:

Loss of tongue-thrust reflex - This allows baby to drink and swallow liquids with ease; with the tongue-thrust reflex still present, baby may simply drink in liquid purees or push the food back out. According to Dr. Jim Sears, in the first four months the tongue thrust reflex protects the infant against choking. When any unusual substance is placed on the tongue, it automatically protrudes outward rather than back. Between four and six months this reflex gradually diminishes, giving the glob of cereal a fighting chance of making it from the tongue to the tummy

Ability to let you know she is full from a "meal" with signs such as turning away from the bottle or breast. This is important so that baby is able to self-regulate the amount of food being eaten. This helps stop baby from accidentally overeating as parents may continue to feed baby thinking that she is still hungry.

Ability to sit up and hold head up unassisted

Interest in your food (we tend to disagree with this one as when a baby reaches the age of 4-6 months, he is interested in putting everything in his mouth.)

Doubling of birth weight

Frequently waking in the middle of the night when a solid sleeping pattern had been established. This may not be the best indicator that your baby is ready for solids. Please keep in mind that a growth spurt will occur between 3-4 months of age, 6-7 months of age and also 9-10 months of age. Baby may also be waking due to an illness or teething.

I know Many Babies Who Were Started on Solids "Early" Why Shouldn't My Baby?

Many parents say that their own pediatricians or their friends' pediatricians have said that it's fine to start solids (typically cereal) at 4 months of age. It is still common for pediatricians to just say "start solid foods when your baby is 4 months old" because this has been the norm for many years. You will find that the vast majority of pediatricians are not experts in pediatric nutrition and many are not aware of their own governing body's guidelines.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) acknowledges that there are no "strict" age guidelines on introducing solid foods to your baby. However, "The AAP Section on Breastfeeding, American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, American Academy of Family Physicians, Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine, World Health Organization, United Nations Children's Fund, and many other health organizations recommend exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months of life.2,127–130 Exclusive breastfeeding is defined as an infant's consumption of human milk with no supplementation of any type (no water, no juice, no nonhuman milk, and no foods) except for vitamins, minerals, and medications.131 Exclusive breastfeeding has been shown to provide improved protection against many diseases and to increase the likelihood of continued breastfeeding for at least the first year of life.

This ensures optimal nutritional exposure and may stave off food allergies amongst other issues. Further studies have shown that an infant's gastrointestinal tract has not or may not have matured enough to properly digest/utilize solid foods until around 6-8 months old. (See page end for reference links)

There is a "conflict" between the AAP Breastfeeding et al and the Committee on Nutrition as regards starting solids. The Committee on Nutrition says babies may be started on solid foods "between 4 and 6 months" of age. The Committee does not recommend 4 months of age as the absolute starting age however. "At approximately four-to-six months, you can begin adding solid foods. "Most babies are not ready for solids before this time, as they have not lost their tongue-thrust reflex at that age," Dr. Greer says. Dr. Greer is with the Committee on Nutrition.

Studies show that babies are highly individual in developing a readiness for solid foods. One baby might seem to be ready for solids at 4 months, while another shows no signs of readiness until around 6 or 7 months. Just because your friend's baby may have began eating solid foods at 4 months of age does not mean that your baby should.

Don't be pushed into starting solids and don't feel like you are a "bad Mommy" if you feel your baby is ready prior to 6 months of age.

**Please keep in mind that "outward" signs of being ready for solids do not mean that your baby's inner digestive system is mature and ready. You should thoroughly discuss starting your baby on solid foods with your baby's pediatrician.

If your pediatrician insists that you start your 4 month old infant on solids and you don't feel baby is ready, ask the pediatriician to explain the benefits of starting solids early. You might be surprised to hear the answer is not based on nutritional science or current recommendations.

And remember, you never HAVE to begin introducing complementary foods simply because your pediatrician has suggested that you do so. Only when you have thoroughly discussed the pros and cons of introducing solid foods with your pediatrician will you be able to have a better grasp of just when you should begin offering baby solid foods.


Won't My Baby Sleep Through the Night If We Start Solids?

Some parents believe that if they start solids "early" then their infants will sleep through the night sooner. As your baby grows, his sleeping patterns as well as eating patterns change continually.

Around the time a few parents begin to offer solids early is just about the time that an infant may be sleeping for longer periods at a time. This is a natural progression as an infant ages and it oftentimes coincides with the addition of early solids. This coincidence perpetuates the dangerous myth that early offerings of solid foods will help an infant sleep "through the night".

To further this explanation, let us recall that between 6-8 months old, baby is often back to waking at night for a feeding. By this time baby should be eating solids and it appears that those solids are no longer helping baby sleep through the night. In reality, baby is hitting another growth spurt and may wake again during the night for more feedings regardless of eating solids. This really is "normal" and your baby may wake again during the night for more feedings regardless of eating solids.

The best advice when considering starting solid foods for your baby, "Watch the Baby - Not the Calendar" This is true for both breastfed and formula fed infants. Follow your baby's hunger cues and you'll never go wrong.

My Parent's Insist That My Baby Needs "Real Food"

Some parents may be tempted to give in to relatives, grandmothers and sometimes even their own mothers, who say "Give that baby some real food, she's starving." or "Nursing that baby isn't enough, he needs some real food".


Remember that "real food" is breast milk and/or formula and these contain all the important nutrients that an infant needs to develop properly. Breast milk in particular, and/or formula, will be enough to sustain your baby's nutritional needs for up to age 1 year old. In fact, introducing solids too early may displace the important nutrition your baby needs to receive from breast milk and/or formula.

I am still thinking if i should start solid on Kyden as i started Isaac at the age of 4 months already but he was not pre mature la.
Well i wil ask PD when his next visit on Feb.

Storing things on my hard disc, gd bye.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Saturday

Overslept did nt wakeup to pump milk y? He forget to asked maid wake me up when I text him! WTF!!!!!!!

Dl one software from iTunes makes my Hp low batt bcas y? Overlook it!!!!! Need 2gb to keep till now still dling omfg!!!

Things aint in my way I want it! I moody not happy today!!

Bad mood overall,gg to bite at whoever piss me off only a little!!!

Had porridge for lunch,cooked myself!

Maid late again this morning! He. Go wake her up nt me!

Gg sacked her in feb as per discuss!!! Nw searching for new maid bt kinda hard sian!!!!

Can't keep her bcas she's too cunning!!! Bt sometimes she's good!shit la!!! She dotes on kids no doubth abt this bf her overall attitude is not passable FAIL even when I say a few of her pro to others all o e agreement SACK no CANT keep her!
Dud I mentioned she went out offday then came bk DRUNK!!!!

Nw she go out cone bk she naturally thinks it's the whe day off and will go bed at 9pm when first few times she will still do the hse abit,I'm not calculative bt bcas her offday is always a Sunday thus j gott Wk n son gt Sch!

Her excuse abt gg bed at 9 each time she's bk is tf she's giddy etc! Fuck her!!!

Giddy don't go out simple!



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Wednesday, January 20, 2010

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