Maid issue

New year is just round the corner and yet i don't feel the same way as i feel as i was younger for New Year, maybe am old?

I haven change money for New Year ang bao also haha. Tml or wad then change la.

I told my mum that i wanted to hire maid yesterday when son grow older by end of this year or so.

She sneer at me again.

Hais...

Why cant some people cant understand that working mum and non working mum don't share the same privileges.
We can say so we share the same ONLY... WHEN THERE IS SOMEONE AT HOME U TRUST TO LOOK AFTER UR KIDS.
When u don't have someone the only choice is only MAID.

After school care is not the best choice after all, the kids gets to stay there after they finished school and they MIGHT get to bathe, sleep etc.
You know a kid, if they can play, do u think they will listen to commands?
They will never listen DE lo.
When the time i finished work and picked him up, again its 7 plus pm or even 8 when we reached home. Not talking about bathing, doing homework etc. It will be like 10 ++ Pm already lo.

Not mentioning that i have to do my housework and by the time i think i will faint from exhaustion.

The 2ND reason that i insist hiring a maid would be.
Have someone ever told u or understand that a Primary school kid would have at least 3 Months of HOLIDAY? not including those 1 week or children day etc.
I have only MAX 20 days leave per year, we shall not include the MC, etc.

How can i stay home and look after him?
No one will want to take care of him and what should i do if this problems arise?
No one will help me to solve it DE!!!!

If there is someone who will help me solve it, in the 1st place i wont hire maid liao ma right?

It means that there is no one willingly to look after him that why that is the last solution.

U think i wanted to hire maid?
NO i don't want to every month extra $500+
Extra money where i can put it to good use DE lei.
NO choice is the final word of the day.

Well that all i can say for my life haha.

I realised that i love nagging and i chose to keep silent because i know no matter how much i said or do it wont change the situation today or tomorrow.

Well, when peers have kids then they will realised why i keep thinking this way and also why i am stubborn.

I am a person who is not "Don't like to take advice, choose to do things my own way" IS I felt it will be the best for my son and i will go ahead with my guts!♥
I cant be forever listening to people N in the end i & my son am the one who suffer.
now even he is in K1 Childcare i cant even OT unless i know he is at my mum place already.
The childcare closed at 7 and i cant be late.
Everyday after work i rushes off at 6 on the dot , just to catch the bus and also to reach in time. Nothing else u know.

It is so tiring every day.
Work, routine, slp.

My life is enough to the max already la.

We both are going to sit down and plan our finical seriously this time round. NO JOKING!!!!!

We are gg Thai after CNY 2 weeks later.
I regret buying the tickets.
i want $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
No choice got to go if not they will forfit my $$$$$$$$$
Son is happiest.
As he will be going to Airport to seat AEROPLANE!!!
Goodness.
I am sad :(

说好的幸福呢 ♥