Five (5) lessons to make you think about the way we treat people.
1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.
During my second month of college, our professorgave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:'What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?' Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen thecleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50's, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked ifthe last question would count toward our quiz grade. 'Absolutely,' said the professor. 'In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you dois smile and say 'hello.'I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned hername was Dorothy.
2. - Second Important Lesson -
Pickup in the Rain One night, at 11:3 0 p.m., an older African Americanwoman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride.Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her, generallyunheard of in those conflict-filled 60s.. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and aknock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached..It read:'Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only myclothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away.. Godbless you for helping me and unselfishly servingothers.'Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.
3 - Third Important Lesson -
Always remember those who serve. In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him..'How much is an ice cream sundae?' he asked. 'Fifty cents,' replied the waitress.The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.'Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?' he inquired.By now more people were waiting for a table and thewaitress was growing impatient.'Thirty-five cents,' she brusquely replied. The little boy again counted his coins.'I'll have the plain ice cream,' he said. The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill onthe table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitresscame back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies.. You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.
4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.
In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on aroadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came byand simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none didanything about getting the stone out of the way. Then a peasant came along carrying a load ofvegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, thepeasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushingand straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticeda purse lying in the road where the boulder hadbeen. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for theperson who removed the boulder from the roadway. Thepeasant learned what many of us never understand!Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.
5 - Fifth Important Lesson -
Giving When it Counts... Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at ahospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz whowas suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who hadmiraculously survived the same disease and haddeveloped the antibodies needed to combat theillness.. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister.I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking adeep breath and saying, 'Yes I'll do it if it will save her.' As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did,seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then hisface grew pale and his smile faded.He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, 'Will I start to die right away'. Being young, the little boy had misunderstood thedoctor; he thought he was going to have to give hissister all of his blood in order to save her but he had chosen to save her anyway.
Our Memories
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
30.07.2008
i cant stand it anymore i just simply hate YOU YOU cas i realised that you are more and more evil, wicked in thinking then i really think you are kind and wad ever so you called/ named it.
I told you i have headaches to get that damn folder yet you kept quiet then in the end TODAY, you came asking me why i buy for them. Fuck you i am so angry with you. Since you are the one who suggest say it out. Will kill you cas you got the vouchers. Now it come back to me that i realised like it is my fault.
Your selfish acts just keep yourself dreaming cas you still think that you are right and let me tell you you are not.
My distance from you is so far since the day i knew you as it is different now from the way you are. Certain people changes & things too but yours is way too huge & evil.
I shall treat you like my HI BYE FREN from now on. No more the so called good fren already as i have to be wary of you.
Simple thing i learnt- Never trust anyone that you think is trustable. Only trust in yourself & no one else.
Secondly, yesterday the house observed good rules.
All tucked into bed yes before 10.30pm.
Cartoon off with limitation of watching only for 3 hours max.
No soccer watched in the night.
But but but but this morning i was so tired despite sleeping since so early.
Sigh then i was late again haha 9.40am due to me going to buy noodles haha. Eating now.. Not so nice today
I need to go on diet, yesterday i ate sushi brought from NTUC. Suddenly got craving la dunno why haha. Nice , fresh but not cheap. Sushi King still cheaper =)
1. Zoo on 02.08.2008
2. BBQ 09.08.2008
3. Thinking (=
Boss on leave for 2 days which means that i am still free till tomorrow as he might come in office la. Friday he will be in Malaysia.
Next week i will be damn busy cas closing month again and the dreadful presentation & etc OMG the sights of it i will vomit.
Things to get:
1. Bebe top
2. Shoes
3. Bags
4. Pants
5. Skirt
6. Dresses
haha so many things to get i think i got spoilt eyes.
Isaac is so clever recently haha, writing is lazy la but overall the way he talk is like adult. So clever!!!
That my boy (=
I told you i have headaches to get that damn folder yet you kept quiet then in the end TODAY, you came asking me why i buy for them. Fuck you i am so angry with you. Since you are the one who suggest say it out. Will kill you cas you got the vouchers. Now it come back to me that i realised like it is my fault.
Your selfish acts just keep yourself dreaming cas you still think that you are right and let me tell you you are not.
My distance from you is so far since the day i knew you as it is different now from the way you are. Certain people changes & things too but yours is way too huge & evil.
I shall treat you like my HI BYE FREN from now on. No more the so called good fren already as i have to be wary of you.
Simple thing i learnt- Never trust anyone that you think is trustable. Only trust in yourself & no one else.
Secondly, yesterday the house observed good rules.
All tucked into bed yes before 10.30pm.
Cartoon off with limitation of watching only for 3 hours max.
No soccer watched in the night.
But but but but this morning i was so tired despite sleeping since so early.
Sigh then i was late again haha 9.40am due to me going to buy noodles haha. Eating now.. Not so nice today
I need to go on diet, yesterday i ate sushi brought from NTUC. Suddenly got craving la dunno why haha. Nice , fresh but not cheap. Sushi King still cheaper =)
1. Zoo on 02.08.2008
2. BBQ 09.08.2008
3. Thinking (=
Boss on leave for 2 days which means that i am still free till tomorrow as he might come in office la. Friday he will be in Malaysia.
Next week i will be damn busy cas closing month again and the dreadful presentation & etc OMG the sights of it i will vomit.
Things to get:
1. Bebe top
2. Shoes
3. Bags
4. Pants
5. Skirt
6. Dresses
haha so many things to get i think i got spoilt eyes.
Isaac is so clever recently haha, writing is lazy la but overall the way he talk is like adult. So clever!!!
That my boy (=
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Tuesday 22.07.2008
I was on MC yesterday as i ahve Fever.
Went to the office in the morning and left at 1pm taking half day MC tt why.
Brought my DS LITE already thanks honey for agreeing
It is fun and also very nice haha but i was sick so cant play yet so later lunch time then play bah haha. Son haven seen the ds so he haven snatch from me yet but he play PSP so no FIGHTING.
Yesterday went back home, clean son, make milk on cartoon then i ZZ all the way till 8.30pm when Honey brought porridge back for me as i have no mood to eat. Ate a few mouthful then i gave all to him, but as i slept for quite long in the afternoon. Night time i slept at 12.30am as i was chasing the drama haha. I left 2 esposide to watch tonight the most exciting part will soon come.
Need to get the part 2 this week or next week bah....
Very nice show you all should watch too.
Tang Xin Fong Pao (HK)
Well work is still the same after all nothng much special just as much work as before lo.
i need to do my PAP smear soon
i have delay im scare haissss
No mood bye bye
Went to the office in the morning and left at 1pm taking half day MC tt why.
Brought my DS LITE already thanks honey for agreeing
It is fun and also very nice haha but i was sick so cant play yet so later lunch time then play bah haha. Son haven seen the ds so he haven snatch from me yet but he play PSP so no FIGHTING.
Yesterday went back home, clean son, make milk on cartoon then i ZZ all the way till 8.30pm when Honey brought porridge back for me as i have no mood to eat. Ate a few mouthful then i gave all to him, but as i slept for quite long in the afternoon. Night time i slept at 12.30am as i was chasing the drama haha. I left 2 esposide to watch tonight the most exciting part will soon come.
Need to get the part 2 this week or next week bah....
Very nice show you all should watch too.
Tang Xin Fong Pao (HK)
Well work is still the same after all nothng much special just as much work as before lo.
i need to do my PAP smear soon
i have delay im scare haissss
No mood bye bye
Friday, July 18, 2008
Monday, July 14, 2008
Pretentious Fake Lies Is the Worst of All Looks can be deceiving
I dunno why i love to crap early in the morning but still i cant stand people attitude who are fake & insincere
Yesterday had an accident and we are at fault.
Tried to cut out at JB custom then in the end a tight slap back to our face. OUR FAULT
Well kinda suay recently and as always our Genting trip is cancelled again & this is the 2ND time we postpone it again haissss :(
Yesterday brought son a cooking set and he was so happy and keep cooking for me and i was like keep eating the same things again and again but only 3 items so he keep saying no food. Tonight will go buy some more for him la. Whole set so he can cook better
Now his attention is not so much on cars so it is kinda better :)
Well cooking seems sissy?
I dunno really. But if he likes why not but not overdo it lar!!!
Then suay now got to top up money for the damn car repairs and also means that next month will be at ZERO again i hate this kind of feeling not say i love money a lot nor wad but just that with the feeling of Zero $$$ each month sucks
I save and save yet it goes & goes :(
I haven got my Bebe top yet haissss 4 days already :(
I'm still waiting got the white dress ended up the white have stains. Fake people never mentioned that got yellow stain haisss.
I have no mood at all for this Monday blues :(
Today boss inside meeting yet i am free but I'm having blues sigh
Well life still goes on wad else
I miss Isaac dearly!!!!!
Need to go for PAP smear already i have drag for 1 year plus and I'm having the SCARED thoughts of the last few events that have happen.
Overall I'M SCARED....
Cig is the evil fren but i cant get rid of it.
Someone help?
I don wanna the same issue to happen again as I'm really SCARED!!!!
I have a long way to go
:(
Today is the worst Monday.
All craps
My best fren i tout are sincere but who knows she is more evil then me and more cunning although some time is great but overall is still EVIL
Yesterday had an accident and we are at fault.
Tried to cut out at JB custom then in the end a tight slap back to our face. OUR FAULT
Well kinda suay recently and as always our Genting trip is cancelled again & this is the 2ND time we postpone it again haissss :(
Yesterday brought son a cooking set and he was so happy and keep cooking for me and i was like keep eating the same things again and again but only 3 items so he keep saying no food. Tonight will go buy some more for him la. Whole set so he can cook better
Now his attention is not so much on cars so it is kinda better :)
Well cooking seems sissy?
I dunno really. But if he likes why not but not overdo it lar!!!
Then suay now got to top up money for the damn car repairs and also means that next month will be at ZERO again i hate this kind of feeling not say i love money a lot nor wad but just that with the feeling of Zero $$$ each month sucks
I save and save yet it goes & goes :(
I haven got my Bebe top yet haissss 4 days already :(
I'm still waiting got the white dress ended up the white have stains. Fake people never mentioned that got yellow stain haisss.
I have no mood at all for this Monday blues :(
Today boss inside meeting yet i am free but I'm having blues sigh
Well life still goes on wad else
I miss Isaac dearly!!!!!
Need to go for PAP smear already i have drag for 1 year plus and I'm having the SCARED thoughts of the last few events that have happen.
Overall I'M SCARED....
Cig is the evil fren but i cant get rid of it.
Someone help?
I don wanna the same issue to happen again as I'm really SCARED!!!!
I have a long way to go
:(
Today is the worst Monday.
All craps
My best fren i tout are sincere but who knows she is more evil then me and more cunning although some time is great but overall is still EVIL
I don't think i can trust anyone that far.
Only trust myself.
Photos soon
Only trust myself.
Photos soon
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Sweet dreams
I dreamt of my 1st EX BF on Monday... :)
SWEET
But i am angry as he left me hais long story lar!!!!
5 years is wad we have spent together and he went for another gal which he knew in Australia OMG!!!!!!
I was devastated and SAD :(
Well back to normal update:-
Son is very clever now ha ha,
He know how to take care of me and also tell me he want to watch more CARTOON but i think he cant watth too much already as he need to study soon haha
His eyes is PINNED with the cartoon till he don't care about his surrounding haha
SCARY
Work is never smooth and a lot of things happen and i kinda sick
HDB finally called me and tell me that they are processing my APPEAL & BALLOTING
yes this means that i have a chance to chose my unit but then all depends if my balloting is successful ant again
PRAY... pray
Well all this have to wait till end of this month the latest but they say 2 weeks lar
Anyway going to Genting on 26 Jul to 28 Jul, but but but hor my basic is on 28 Jul, 6.45pm!!!!!!!
Zzzz that means i got to cramp on the car haha!!!
Brought 2 Bebe top and i damn love it i tell you. Beautiful!!!!!
Might get the other one too but then i dunno S size too tight for me ant!!!!
That all BYE
SWEET
But i am angry as he left me hais long story lar!!!!
5 years is wad we have spent together and he went for another gal which he knew in Australia OMG!!!!!!
I was devastated and SAD :(
Well back to normal update:-
Son is very clever now ha ha,
He know how to take care of me and also tell me he want to watch more CARTOON but i think he cant watth too much already as he need to study soon haha
His eyes is PINNED with the cartoon till he don't care about his surrounding haha
SCARY
Work is never smooth and a lot of things happen and i kinda sick
HDB finally called me and tell me that they are processing my APPEAL & BALLOTING
yes this means that i have a chance to chose my unit but then all depends if my balloting is successful ant again
PRAY... pray
Well all this have to wait till end of this month the latest but they say 2 weeks lar
Anyway going to Genting on 26 Jul to 28 Jul, but but but hor my basic is on 28 Jul, 6.45pm!!!!!!!
Zzzz that means i got to cramp on the car haha!!!
Brought 2 Bebe top and i damn love it i tell you. Beautiful!!!!!
Might get the other one too but then i dunno S size too tight for me ant!!!!
That all BYE
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Sick day
I have not been blogging as i am so lazy don't asked me why.. Just plain lazy
Went to view house yesterday. Liked it a lot but well this time round i cant simply just pay deposit already as things are different already. Long story.
Dream can, realistic cant have to pray hard & long. :(
Nerveless i will not give up as i have already ballot already hoping like lucky draw they CHOSE me lo :)
Weekend was spent same nothing much difference except i was super hard working in cleaning the house that all.
I need to vent my anger......
A dog really can cause HUMAN to have Asthma? Killed?
Then what about those cat at void deck.. wont they harmed human more then a pet at home.
Old fashion thinking people cant at least change the mindset a bit? Can change for the sake of changing? It takes two hand to clap but i shall not wanna clap with you. IDIOT
I might be wrong in forcing you to love or like something which you don't like, but please this is the 20th century can you just bend your fucking thoughts a bit and don't be so Ku Zi... Die also don't know the reason trust. i am not trying to be bad or curse people but i really cant stand it & YOU are Sissy cant act!!!!
The upbringing of a family is really very serious i think and YES you all have to reflect on yourself.
Person is good treat then good not treat CB people very very nice as it is wasting your time.
I need to MOVE and yes i wanna move ASAP
Anyone selling their house but don want much cash top up, please call me, if not i will go CRAZY soon........
i hate the feeling of been treated like a fool & yet i have to put on an act to show u respect. No no no
Wrong
I don't respect people if i don't like you.
YES.. I don't like u neither will i try to.
You might mean well but that is your definition.
Sorry we don't accept this type of STUPID reason.
Get a life OLD MAN
Went to view house yesterday. Liked it a lot but well this time round i cant simply just pay deposit already as things are different already. Long story.
Dream can, realistic cant have to pray hard & long. :(
Nerveless i will not give up as i have already ballot already hoping like lucky draw they CHOSE me lo :)
Weekend was spent same nothing much difference except i was super hard working in cleaning the house that all.
I need to vent my anger......
A dog really can cause HUMAN to have Asthma? Killed?
Then what about those cat at void deck.. wont they harmed human more then a pet at home.
Old fashion thinking people cant at least change the mindset a bit? Can change for the sake of changing? It takes two hand to clap but i shall not wanna clap with you. IDIOT
I might be wrong in forcing you to love or like something which you don't like, but please this is the 20th century can you just bend your fucking thoughts a bit and don't be so Ku Zi... Die also don't know the reason trust. i am not trying to be bad or curse people but i really cant stand it & YOU are Sissy cant act!!!!
The upbringing of a family is really very serious i think and YES you all have to reflect on yourself.
Person is good treat then good not treat CB people very very nice as it is wasting your time.
I need to MOVE and yes i wanna move ASAP
Anyone selling their house but don want much cash top up, please call me, if not i will go CRAZY soon........
i hate the feeling of been treated like a fool & yet i have to put on an act to show u respect. No no no
Wrong
I don't respect people if i don't like you.
YES.. I don't like u neither will i try to.
You might mean well but that is your definition.
Sorry we don't accept this type of STUPID reason.
Get a life OLD MAN
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